In today's world I believe many women don't realize how beautiful they are. Most are so condemning of themselves. They find all of their perceived flaws and then proceed to trash their self esteem. That is so far from the truth. That is where we as men need to step in and show them their beauty.
To me there is nothing more exciting to see when your feels beautiful. For example during my brothers wedding Buffy looked gorgeous (note : she always does) and her eyes glimmered. You could tell she felt good about herself. I loved seeing that and as we danced I couldn't help but almost cry.
What is the issue? I think there are many but a lot of it has to do with us.
1) Many men will slobber all over the television when their favorite actress, model or whatever is on. This tends to appear that there are qualities in that person that they like better in that lady.
2) We only tell women they are beautiful during special occasions. So that looks like they only look beautiful when they are dressed up.
3) We simply don't treat them like the wonderful gifts they are.
I know there is way more things but you get the idea. I know we as men often do things without even knowing. It is time though that we step up and encourage, love, respect and cherish our beautiful help mates.
"You are altogether beautiful, my darling, beautiful in every way." Song of Solomon 4:7
"You have captured my heart, my treasure, my bride. You hold it hostage with one glance of your eyes," Song of Solomon 4:9
"Your love delights me, my treasure, my bride. Your love is better than wine, your perfume more fragrant than spices." Song of Solomon 4:10
I have had this scripture in my heart for days now. This post is to cause us men to appreciate and complement our wives. They are truly beautiful blessings from above.
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